Dear Parents and Guardians
As we approach this long weekend, the school has had the opportunity to reflect on the reasons behind this break, namely the acknowledgement of Human Rights Day as an important and meaningful moment in our country’s calendar. On Wednesday, the boys led a programme that recognized the significance of the day and honoured the memory of one of SA’s struggle icons, Steve Biko, whose grandchild is a pupil at the school. Mr Hlumelo Biko, Mr Steve Biko’s son and current parent spoke about how the privilege of education, such as that his father had, has to be used to influence the world with regard to human rights and the equal treatment of all people. He encouraged the boys to take up leadership roles in this regard, big or small, and to be ready to lead towards positive change.
This was a special moment for our boys as they remembered those who made the ultimate sacrifice in the pursuit of justice and dignity for all. I ask that we take a moment on Human Rights Day to reflect on our own contribution to the provision of basic human rights to our fellow human beings and how this day has such great importance in our year.
The term is almost over and what a term it has been! We have had a full programme and I thank all those who made it possible. I commend our new boys in particular on the manner in which they have contributed to the school at the start of their College journey.
Next week marks the start of the month of Ramadan and we wish our Muslim community well for the fast that will take place over the following month. The end of the fast, celebrated through the festival of Eid, will be on or about the Friday of the first week in the new term.
Events
Our thanks go to all those who supported the annual Carnival, held two weeks ago with much success. Particular thanks go to the PAs of all three schools, the ODU, all the members of the organizing committee and those who gave willingly of their time.
Founders’ Day was celebrated and held as a combined event with the awarding of the first Robert Gray medal for 2023, the highest honour the school can bestow on an OD for his significant contribution to society over a period of time. We commend Bishops Christopher Gregorowski of his award and thank him for his remarkable work during his lifetime. The boys certainly appreciated what he has done as they gave him a standing ovation following his address in chapel. Mr Chris Haw, OD, was the Founders’ Day speaker and delivered a wonderful address on the advice he would have given to himself when he was at school based on what he knew now. Our grateful thanks to both ODs for making this such a special moment for our boys.
I attended the annual International Boys’ Schools Coalition regional conference along with five other staff from the school, held recently in Gqeberha. This was a very good conference indeed and much was learned as we discussed and heard about issues pertaining to the education and development of boys. I shall reflect on one aspect of this conference later in this newsletter.
Term Dates 2024
A month ago, we published our term dates for 2024 after consultation with the other independent schools in our region. Subsequent to that, a number of schools have changed their calendars and we have debated whether to follow suit or not, given the significant number of children that attend both Bishops and these schools. We have decided to amend our calendar to include a two week break between the third and fourth terms to allow our boys, particularly our Grade 12s, some breathing space between two busy exam terms and to allow our staff a proper break before the last term. The new dates for 2024 are thus:
Term 1 Wed 17 Jan to Wed 20 March (unchanged)
Term 2 Tue 9 April to Wed 12 June (unchanged)
Term 3 Tue 9 July to Fri 20 Sept (unchanged)
Term 4 Mon 7 Oct to Fri 6 Dec (one week later)
We are confident that we have not compromised the academic programme of the school in any way as we have also considered that most public holidays for 2024 fall in the school holidays.
Discipline
We are continuing our drive to improve discipline in the school as we deal with the multitude of issues that teenage boys face and their actions that sometimes cause concern. One of the speakers at the aforementioned conference, IBSC Executive Director Tom Batty, spoke of the need for boys’ schools to be places where boys can make mistakes, learn from them and grow.
Simply put, boys will have dire consequences for mistakes made in their adult lives and, as their brains are still developing and their rational abilities are works in progress, they sometimes do things that appall or perplex us as adults. We must be careful that we do not judge teenage boys through the lens of an adult. The consequences for a boy’s actions cannot be the same as if an adult did what a boy did.
Tom said “Boys need to be able to get stuff wrong; they do dumb stuff and need soft hands that don’t move.” I loved this statement as it encapsulated my personal philosophy that we need to have boundaries for our developing young men. We need them to know what is right and wrong and we mustn’t let them down by changing those non-negotiables, but we need to acknowledge that they will indeed stray and often! Our “soft hands” are those of compassion and care as we guide our boys gently back to the path of goodness and right while always ensuring that those who may have been hurt in the process are helped and healed.
One final point to clarify procedures. If an incident of serious misconduct is reported or comes to our attention, it is investigated – always. This is done under the guidance of our Deputy Head, Mr Warren Wallace, with the assistance of various staff. If the matter warrants serious intervention, the Disciplinary Committee, chaired by the Deputy Principal Mr Peter Westwood and including a number of experienced staff, hears the evidence and decides not only on the guilt or innocence of the offender(s) but also the consequences. There is a right of appeal to the Principal after which the sanction is final. My role in serious discipline, apart from leading policy and setting of procedure is to remain impartial as an appeal may be made to me following the process. We ask you to trust this process as we have probably dealt with many such cases before and are experienced educators who know boys.
Closing Thoughts
I end with a story shared with me by a colleague who is Head of a school in Cape Town. While she was in Cavendish Square, loadshedding caused the escalators to cease to run. A woman with a full trolley was at the bottom of the escalators needing to go to her car some flights up. Two Bishops boys, in uniform, volunteered to carry her parcels up many flights of stairs and take them to her car. A simple gesture that meant so much to the woman and that made me so proud!
I wish you well for the last two weeks of term as we change sports seasons and come to the end of a busy time.
Kind regards
Antony Reeler
Principal
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